The person who plants selfishness, ignoring the needs of others—ignoring God!—harvests a crop of weeds. All he’ll have to show for his life is weeds! But the one who plants in response to God, letting God’s Spirit do the growth work in him, harvests a crop of real life, eternal life” (Galatians 6:7-8 The Message). Selfishness... Continue Reading →
You Can’t Love People Without Listening to Them
“We must bear the ‘burden’ of being considerate of the doubts and fears of others” (Romans 15:2b TLB). Listening is probably the most important skill in building friendships and relationships, because you can’t love people without listening to them.There’s a big difference between hearing and listening. You can hear something and not really be listening. I... Continue Reading →
Don’t Let Fear Keep You from Deepening Friendships
“For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline” (2 Timothy 1:7 TLB). When we’re full of fear and anxiety, we don’t get close to each other. We back off from each other. We’re afraid of being rejected, manipulated, vulnerable, hurt, or used. All of these fears... Continue Reading →
Authentic Friendships Happen in the Light
“But if we live in the light, as God is in the light, we can share fellowship with each other. Then the blood of Jesus, God's Son, cleanses us from every sin. If we say we have no sin, we are fooling ourselves, and the truth is not in us” (1 John 1:7-8 NCV). In Christian... Continue Reading →
You Don’t Have to Live in Fear
“God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them . . . There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear” (1 John 4:16, 18 NIV). Setbacks will come your way. You can’t avoid them. You may lose a job, a relationship, or your health. And when you... Continue Reading →
Breaking Free from Unforgiveness
“One person dies in full vigor, completely secure and at ease . . . Another dies in bitterness of soul, never having enjoyed anything good” (Job 21:23, 25 NIV). God will place opportunities in front of you, doors only you can open. But you can’t step through them if you harbor unforgiveness. Unforgiveness is a prison.... Continue Reading →
You Don’t Need to Pretend Anymore
I have gained perfect freedom by following your teachings” (Psalm 119:45 CEV). I know lots of people who like to pretend.I’m not talking about children who play make-believe. I’m talking about adults who try to pretend they’re somebody else to get the approval of others. Maybe that’s you. Maybe you’ve been pretending for so long that... Continue Reading →
God Shakes Up Our Lives to Set Us Free
“Suddenly there was such a violent earthquake that the foundations of the prison were shaken. At once all the prison doors flew open, and everyone’s chains came loose” (Acts 16:26 NIV). Sometimes we need God to shake up our lives.It’s particularly true when we find ourselves locked up in prisons of our own making, like a... Continue Reading →
You Are Called to Be Free
“You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free” (Galatians 5:13 NIV). God wants you to live in freedom. Let that sink in for a bit.In fact, the Bible says, “You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free”(Galatians 5:13 NIV). Freedom is your calling. God doesn’t want you to live a buttoned-down, constrained life.... Continue Reading →
There Is Only One Way to Be Free
“I am the door; if anyone enters through Me, he will be saved” (John 10:9 NASB). You’ll encounter lots of doors in your life. You’ll find doors to happiness, doors to sadness, doors to success, and doors to failure. Some doors are traps, and others are opportunities. Your success in life largely depends on which doors... Continue Reading →
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